I’m sitting here on International Women’s Day reflecting on how far we’ve come. There are groups and services that are dedicated to the advancement of women and typically they describe a very depressing story. These groups talk about the glass ceiling and how women aren’t represented adequately enough in positions of leadership. For instance at the most recent Women of Influence Luncheon the statistic was announced that only 14% of all available board seats are held by women. Meaning 86% of all directors on corporate boards are men. A stat that seems appalling in this day and age, however I pose the questions “have women asked to be in these board seats” and “do we advocate enough for ourselves and each other?” I realize that our male counterparts in business are making x% more than us, attributing to the inequity in compensation and advancement. It’s also come to my attention that in the arts & culture sector there are many inequities as well. I sit on the board of directors for Nightwood Theatre and a recent study by the artistic director showed how few positions there were for women in the theatre community. She also pointed out how few females are in positions of leadership (i.e. directors, producers). I’m sure if we studied other industries, we’d see a similar story and similar representation.

I’m sure we can all get caught up in the anger of this inequity and asking the proverbial question, WHY? However as I sit here on International Women’s Day, I’d like to take a different approach and CELEBRATE where we are. Just this past Sunday the first woman ever won “BEST DIRECTOR” at the Oscars, Katherine Bigelow. What an amazing accomplishment for her to win best picture and best director in such a male dominated industry. Another fantastic accomplishment can be recognized right here close to home. Mary Aiken has to be celebrated for creating a haven for women at the Verity Club. This is a supportive environment for women to network, mentor each other, and gain respite from the stresses of life.

I choose to celebrate today and think of all the good things that are happening for women both abroad and at home. If we want to pave the way for our daughters and grand-daughters, I invite you to choose celebration and NOT anger. I invite you to encourage your female counterparts, mentor young women when & where you can, and always advocate for those that can’t advocate for themselves. Let’s not get caught up in the negativity on such an incredible day...cherish being a woman and celebrate our accomplishments!!!

Kendra Court
Gatherings Event Planning